I was reading about this a few days ago and wasn’t sure where to start. Like, women turn down casual sex with a total stranger and the immediate conclusion is that they just aren’t interested in sex, period??? Really??? I mean, there’s the idea of being judged for having sex with a total stranger, there’s the fact that it might not be very good, and there’s, I don’t know, the fact that this stranger could plan to leave you for dead in a ditch. Nah, it must be because women just don’t want to have sex. Yeah, that’s it. That’s the ticket.
I read this article about how women orgasm less during casual hookups, and there was a quote from a guy who admitted he ‘tried less hard’ to make sure women enjoyed sex with him when he didn’t have feelings for them. Too much work, otherwise..
Which seems innocuous on the surface, I guess, but when you think about it… this guy (and presumably others) gets the same enjoyment out of sex either way, gets to expect to get off and get what he wants with every hookup, but he doesn’t think women inherently deserve satisfaction from those same encounters.
What do they think is in it for us? Like, what is essentially broken in straight dudes’ brains that they think their own pleasure is some great gift and ours is just a bonus that happens if they decide we’re worth the effort??
Tatiana Maslany on the red carpet at the Canadian Screen Awards in Toronto on Sunday March 9, 2014.
this was originally just supposed to just be a doodle but here we are
humanstuck feferi is so fun to draw im def gonna draw more of her in the future
Striders and upturned collars, two of my weaknesses…
Becoming George - Abel Korzeniowski
i think what i really need is just for someone to come over to my house tomorrow with a bottle of vodka so we can drink and talk about all the shit that upsets us and cry and then have fun for the rest of the day doing dumb shit can that happen can that be a thing